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My love For Hijaab: problems can you help me

My love For Hijaab: problems can you help me

Question:
I was happy to find out your site because it's been 2 years that I have a big problem. Indeed, two years ago I decided to wear the hidjab. First, I have to explain you where I am from. I live in the North of France, I am originally from Algeria and I am a Sunni muslim. I'm 20 and I'm a student in university. When I left high school, I began reading more and more about Islam, being regular about my prayers, fearing Allah subhanu wata3ala and doing my best to get closer to HIM. I made the decision to wear the hidjab. My parents pray. They don't try to learn more science about Islam and they don't read the Quran. My mother who is 59 doesn't wear al hidjab. When I wanted to put the veil, they got furious, my father became high-boiling, he had a fit of rage and there wasn't any dialogue possible with him. He told me if you wear the veil you have to leave my home. First, I ignored their remarks and I left the veil on my head and then he took it off from my hair. I cried a lot, I keep on praying Allah subhanu wata3ala every day during all the prayers. I study 30 minutes by train far from home. I come back to home every day. During the last months, I began wearing it in the train just after leaving home. I wear it during all the day but my parents don't know anything about it. I want to know what should I do about that? Because I'm fed up with having this double life. Anyway al hamdulilah, I put my trust in Allah "Wa tawakal 3ala Allah wa kafa billahi wa kilah" Sourate al ahzab 
Ustadha Zaynab Ansar Answers:

In the Name of Allah, the Gracious, the Merciful. 

Dear Sister, 

May Allah Ta'ala reward you for making this decision under very challenging circumstances. Remember that when you take a step toward Allah the Exalted, He reciprocates many times over. 

On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said that the Prophet, Allah bless him and give him peace, said: Allah the Almighty said:

I am as My servant thinks I am. I am with him when he makes mention of Me. If he makes mention of Me to himself, I make mention of him to Myself; and if he makes mention of Me in an assembly, I make mention of him in an assembly better than it. And if he draws near to Me an arm's length, I draw near to him a fathom's length. And if he comes to Me walking, I go to him at speed. 
Hadith Qudsi 15. It was related by al-Bukhari (also by Muslim, at-Tirmidhi and Ibn-Majah).

Obedience to parents is not unconditional. Therefore, if our parents ask us to do something that contravenes Sacred Law, then we are obliged to disobey them.

Obedience to Allah Ta'ala, however, is unconditional. That is why we are Muslims, that is, we fully surrender to Allah the Exalted. As a Muslim woman, one of your religious responsibilities is to wear hijab. This is something between you and your Lord, and your parents cannot interfere.

Please remain true to your convictions, but also remain a good daughter to your parents by emphasizing your love and respect for them. Try to respond positively when they raise objections. 

I pray that Allah Ta'ala opens their hearts and brings them around. 

And Allah knows best.

Thank you sister for sharing maybe Allah build the huda in your parents heart

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