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Love which ends in Marriage – is it Haraam?????
I have selected to post on this Topic because i see Lots of Muslim youth's have fallen in "Love" before marriage when they are adviced ,we often get this reply
"Love haraam ah? Our love is not Haram love?!! But our love is "pure" and "innocent”! Forbidden relationships mean fornication before marriage! But my relationship with him never crossed the limits..“
so here in this post i have compiled Hadiths and explanation of Islamic scholars On this Topic ,This post is a sincere advice for our Muslim brothers and sisters because Quran states:
"You are the best nation produced [as an example] for mankind. You enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong and believe in Allah . " [3:110]
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We ask Allaah to protect us from all evils. Praise be to Allaah,
Firstly,It is not permissible for a woman/man to form a relationship with opposite sex who is a stranger (non-mahram), even if his/her intention is to get married, because Allaah has forbidden being alone with a non-mahram member of the opposite sex, or shaking hands with non-mahram or looking at non-mahram, except in the case of necessity such as proposing marriage or giving testimony. Also staying in touch on Facebook or other social media even for the sake of Marriage is not Halal.
Even if both are willing to marry each other. It is also forbidden for a woman to uncover her ‘awrah in front of non-mahram men, or to go out among them wearing perfume or to speak softly to men. These prohibitions are known from the evidence of the Qur’aan and Sunnah, and no exceptions are made for one who wants to get married or even for one who is actually proposing marriage, because a fiancé is still a non-mahram and a stranger to the woman until the marriage contract is done.
Evidences:
1.) The reports that indicate that it is haraam to be alone with a non-mahram woman even with his/her fiancé The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No man should be alone with a woman.”
Al-Bukhaari (3006) and Muslim (1341)
And The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No man is alone with a woman but the third one present is the Shaytaan.”
Al-Tirmidhi (2165)
2.)The evidence that indicates that it is haraam for a man to look at a woman includes the verse in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts). That is purer for them. Verily, Allaah is All-Aware of what they do”
[al-Noor 24:30]
Love which ends in Marriage – is it Haraam?????
I have selected to post on this Topic because i see Lots of Muslim youth's have fallen in "Love" before marriage when they are adviced ,we often get this reply
"Love haraam ah? Our love is not Haram love?!! But our love is "pure" and "innocent”! Forbidden relationships mean fornication before marriage! But my relationship with him never crossed the limits..“
so here in this post i have compiled Hadiths and explanation of Islamic scholars On this Topic ,This post is a sincere advice for our Muslim brothers and sisters because Quran states:
"You are the best nation produced [as an example] for mankind. You enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong and believe in Allah . " [3:110]
And people tagged in this pic ,share it with your friends inshaa allah !!!
We ask Allaah to protect us from all evils. Praise be to Allaah,
Firstly,It is not permissible for a woman/man to form a relationship with opposite sex who is a stranger (non-mahram), even if his/her intention is to get married, because Allaah has forbidden being alone with a non-mahram member of the opposite sex, or shaking hands with non-mahram or looking at non-mahram, except in the case of necessity such as proposing marriage or giving testimony. Also staying in touch on Facebook or other social media even for the sake of Marriage is not Halal.
Even if both are willing to marry each other. It is also forbidden for a woman to uncover her ‘awrah in front of non-mahram men, or to go out among them wearing perfume or to speak softly to men. These prohibitions are known from the evidence of the Qur’aan and Sunnah, and no exceptions are made for one who wants to get married or even for one who is actually proposing marriage, because a fiancé is still a non-mahram and a stranger to the woman until the marriage contract is done.
Evidences:
1.) The reports that indicate that it is haraam to be alone with a non-mahram woman even with his/her fiancé The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No man should be alone with a woman.”
Al-Bukhaari (3006) and Muslim (1341)
And The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No man is alone with a woman but the third one present is the Shaytaan.”
Al-Tirmidhi (2165)
2.)The evidence that indicates that it is haraam for a man to look at a woman includes the verse in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts). That is purer for them. Verily, Allaah is All-Aware of what they do”
[al-Noor 24:30]
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